Friday, May 25, 2012

"Steps of Reflection, Faith in Tomorrow"

      About 14 months ago, Spencer and I were asked to meet with one of the Members of our Stake Presidency.   At this meeting President Opdahl talked about how our Stake would like to participate in a Youth Pioneer Trek during the summer of 2012.  I instantly thought, Oh!...he's going to ask us to be a Ma & Pa, but to my utter shock he asked for our service as Trek Coordinators, which means we plan the whole thing.  That is a HUGE responsibility!  Of course we accepted and so for the past 14 months we have been living and breathing Pioneer Treks.  During this prep-time I have felt such a varied amount of emotions; excited, inspired, anxious and overwhelmed, but most of all humbled!  I have been humbled by the amount of service so many people freely give to make events like this happen.  I am humbled by the respect and trust that others have in us, even though they are older and wiser, I feel their confidence in us and I appreciate that.  During our Trek Kick-Off Fireside I gave the following talk to our Stake youth which expresses my thoughts on the up-coming Trek. 

"Steps of Reflection, Faith in Tomorrow"

      I have to admit that between the age of 12-18 I had absolutely no interest in Pioneers!  I never had a great-great grandfather cross the plains pulling a handcart with the hope of finding religious freedom, so I had never felt a personal connection to the early pioneer history so widely regarded in our church.  I had the mentality that if it didn’t apply to me, why should I care.

     But the truth of the matter is, it does apply to me.  And it applies to all of you too.  And I regret to say that for years I was oblivious to the roots that blessed me, and continue to bless me.  We all have pioneers in our family.  Every single one of us here have at least one ancestor that chose to listen to the missionaries and join the church so that their children could have the gospel in their lives.  For some of us here, those pioneers may date back to the early settlers of the church; those who sacrificed all they had because of their faith in the gospel.  For others it may have been your parents or grandparents who were introduced to the gospel, or even yet, maybe your roots in the church began with you. 

     However long your roots in the gospel have been planted, one thing that rings true for all of us is that those roots are a part of our spiritual strength. 

     The first part of our theme we entitled, “Steps of Reflection”.  We chose this phrase because we feel that it’s important to reflect on where we came from.  We need to take the time to learn about what our ancestors did and what they sacrificed for us.  Personally, and collectively. 

      It’s extremely important that we not forget what the Restoration really means and what it cost. 

      I had an opportunity a few years ago to learn about my great-grandma on my Dad’s side.  She was born and raised in Norway.  When she was 18 years old she worked for a man who was a Mormon.  The religion intrigued her and she wanted to be taught the gospel.  She asked to be baptized, but because of her parents’ disapproval the missionaries told her they would rather she had a strong testimony, strong enough to stand on her own before she be baptized.  Her family practically disowned her.  In public her siblings even refused to be seen with her. 

      My Great-Grandma belonged to a club that the church in Norway had.  In this club each member would pay a certain amount of money a month into a fund and the most active member was given the money to come to America.  Once they got to America and secured a job they would then repay the money to the club.  Despite several threats from her family that bad things would happen to her if she left, she decided it was the right thing to do and arrived in America in Feb. 1910.  She only knew just a handful of people who had traveled previously and that is all.

      It takes a lot of faith to leave something behind, even if you’re moving on to something better, but Faith helps us to have courage in pursuing our dreams.  The gospel of Jesus Christ would not be what it is today if not for the faith of the early pioneers.  But do we truly understand WHY the pioneers did what they did? 

      Just like my Great-Grandma, the Saints in a lot of cases could have stayed where they were. But they looked beyond the here and the now.  Which leads me to the second part of our theme.   “Faith in Tomorrow”

      The Pioneers movement west was for us, the future members of this church, so that we could have the gospel in our lives, and a temple to worship in.  The hardships that the Pioneers had to endure were severe.  I bet in a lot of cases the pain felt endless.  But they were determined.  They KNEW that tomorrow would be better.  “Tomorrow” might have meant days or weeks, or even months before relief came but they believed with all of their heart that that relief would come.  Many gave their lives trying. 

      By experiencing some of the hardships that the early Church pioneers had to go through, we hope that you will learn to appreciate, and value, all that they did for you.  And recognize the faith they had in order to do it.  One of my favorite quotes from the movie 17 Miracles is, “All this will be worth it if my posterity will keep the faith”. 

      It is my hope as we go on this trek that we can all begin to recognize the roots that have blessed our lives.  That our faith in the gospel will grow.  And more importantly, as we exercise our faith, we will all come to realize that we too can overcome any hardship in our life.  I leave this with you in the name of Jesus Christ, Amen.  

Wednesday, May 2, 2012

12 Year Anniversary

“Choose a companion carefully and prayerfully;
and when you are married, be fiercely loyal one to
another. Priceless advice comes from a small framed
plaque I once saw in the home of an uncle and aunt.
It read, “Choose your love; love your choice.”
—President Thomas S. Monson
I was so happy when I came across this quote the other day.  Just a couple of days prior to me stumbling upon it I asked a dear friend, someone I look up to, what piece of advice she could give me on how to keep a marriage strong through all of the years, and she said two things: 

1.  Always treat your spouse as if you're still dating; and
2.  Be fiercely loyal  

Those two words, "fiercely loyal" have forever been etched into my mind!  12 years ago I married my best friend, and today he is still my best friend!  I love him with all of my heart.  I consider myself lucky to have chosen the man I did and I still, and forever will, love my choice! 

Sunday, April 22, 2012

Funny Quotes!

From the mouth of Cameron, "Mom, I can spell DVD ...     D-V-D"   He was so proud of himself. We just laughed.

And along the same line ...

One night while we were playing a game together as a family Andrew held the dice in his hands and put them close to his mouth and said in a deep growl, "My Precious" then rolled them on the table. A little too much Lord of the Rings, maybe!?

Friday, April 20, 2012

Superintendent SCORE Award

Cameron never ceases to amaze us.  At home he is a great kid, but somehow when he goes to school he turns into an angel.  Seriously, when his teachers gush about how wonderful he is I am definitely proud, but I also wonder, are we talking about the same kid?  Cameron can give us a run for our money that's for sure, but we also couldn't be more proud of him! 

This last Wednesday Cameron was awarded the April Superintendent SCORE award.  This award is intended to recognize a student for achievement in diversity, acceptance and cultural awareness.  All nominations are submitted to the School District Superintendent for consideration.  Cameron's teacher, Mrs. Mary, submitted a nomination on his behalf and here is what she had to say about him:

"Cameron has an exceptionally keen sense of compassion for others.  He unconditionally supports all students and adults.  His encouraging words are always filled with kindness and smiles.  Cameron is our class conscience, taking some bold steps to help eliminate barriers that prevent racial diversity in our classroom and school.  Cameron is contributing personally to help ensure that all students are treated equally to succeed in a global economy.  In turn, he is supporting more students to feel safe and respected in our school". 

We couldn't be more proud of our son!  This is his 2nd Superintendent SCORE award so whatever he is doing, he is doing it well.  Congratulations Cameron, we love you!! 
Our District Superintendent
 All recipients of the Award
 Cameron's wonderful teacher, Mrs. Mary

Wednesday, April 11, 2012

2012 Pinewood Derby

I have to say, there were some pretty clever vehicles that showed up to this year's Pinewood Derby!  I don't know if you could necessarily classify Austin's creation as a "vehicle", it more or less looked like a golf ball on wheels, but Spencer was convinced that this was the ticket.  Not really knowing if Spencer's idea would work or not, we anxiously watched it's first run down the track and let out a sigh of relief when it appeared to be alright.  In the end it was more than just alright.  He remained undefeated until the final run against Gordon who was undefeated as well.  Gordon came out on top and Austin took 2nd place.  He was pretty thrilled with 2nd place, and I was really proud of the way all the kids showed support for each other.  Being able to lose graciously is definitely a great lesson to learn early in life!

Portland Trailblazers

A couple months ago Spencer felt the urge to buy some Blazer tickets and found a great deal online for a few games.  He bought tickets so he could see the Miami Heat, Oklahoma City Thunder, and the Utah Jazz all play against Portland.  The first game, Portland vs. Miami, Spencer took Austin with him because they really wanted to see Lebron James play.  I got a date out of game #2; Oklahoma City vs. Portland.  Spencer took me shopping at the Lloyd Center, dinner at Applebees, and then to the Rose Garden for the game.  Game #3 is next week when we play against Utah and I am looking forward to it.  I have to admit, I could get used to this life of going to games frequently.  Basketball games are so exciting.  Maybe someday when we strike it rich we'll be able to buy season tickets for our family.  That would be awesome!
Just as a side note, when Spencer & Austin walked in to the Rose Garden, a man approached them and asked Austin if he would like to participate in the half time show.  They were looking for 3 kids who were willing to dress in over-sized b-ball shorts and a jersey and then the first one to make a basket would win a free happy meal once a week, for an entire year.  Austin graciously declined.  He is not a performer.  Now if Cameron had been there, I guarantee he would have been all over it!
     

Sunday, April 1, 2012

Make a Wish

In the blink of an eye, Cameron has turned 7!  Where does the time go?
HAPPY BIRTHDAY my sweet boy!!


Thursday, February 23, 2012

My Incredibly Talented Husband!

I have to take a few minutes to brag about Spencer.  That man has such a hidden talent of art and creativity.  He never ceases to amaze me.  This year's theme for Austin's Cub Scout 'Blue & Gold Banquet' was a Mexican Fiesta.  The kids were asked to bring a cake with some kind of Spanish flare to it.  I let Spencer take the reigns on this one because I know he is pretty creative and that he would help Austin come up with something fun.  He certainly did.  I was asked to bake 2 sheets of brownies and the rest they would take care of.  I had absolutely no idea what Spencer had in mind and he wanted it to be a surprise so I couldn't see till it was done.  When they finally finished, this is what I saw ...
 A totally awesome Iguana!!  They used some of my cardstock to create the fins on the back and the tongue.  I was blown away!  It was too cool, and not only that, it tasted amazing!  I seriously wonder how Spencer came up with the idea?  The bottom line is, he has so much talent in him, I am seriously amazed!

Thursday, February 9, 2012

Athletic Award

I am so proud of Austin, who was given the Athletic Award at school.  He loves P.E., and we always get great reports on him from his P.E. teacher.  He's a great team player and has a positive, can-do-anything attitude.  Way to go, Austin! 

Wednesday, February 1, 2012

5 Random Things I Love

I am often times the Queen of random thoughts and this post here proves it.  As I was tinkering around today I found myself saying, "I Love That" quite often.  So I decided to write down those thoughts and I am calling it, 5 Random Things I Love:

1.  Peanut Butter and Honey on a slice of Wheat Bread!  Oh boy!  If I am craving chocolate or other junk food this is my go to snack.  It satisfies all cravings for me.  The key is to toast the bread so that the peanut butter begins to melt.  So, so good!

2.  My Electric Heat Pad!  Just about every night I go to bed with my heat pad wrapped around my feet.  Gradually, it works it's way up to my chest, and by then I am so comfortably warm that I'm able to fall fast asleep.  I love my heat pad!

3.  My Exercise Club!  Call me crazy, but I love to pump iron.  Bring on the heavy weights, I say!  And if lifting isn't intense enough, then spin class definitely nails it.  When it comes to exercise, I love to be pushed to my max.  It makes me realize that I am capable of far more then what I think I am.  I usually leave the gym feeling strong both physically and mentally.

4.  My Laptop!  How great it is to be sitting here on my couch, snuggled in a blanket, and yet, be online!  Not all of the time spent sitting on my couch online is wasted, or for fun, but admittedly, some is.  However, it's nice not being tied down to a single space when I need to use the computer.  I love how portable a laptop is.  I can take it to the gym when I do daycare.  I can carry it into my bathroom and listen to music when I get ready.  I just love portable computers! 

5.  Good Books!  In talking with friends today at lunch we discussed some of my favorite books.  The thing that I love about good authors is the way they can paint a picture so vividly in your mind yet at the same time books allow you to use your own imagination.  I love how a story can touch all emotions, whether it's outright laughter, or shedding tears. Some people prefer watching a movie as opposed to reading the book, but I say they are missing out on so much more to the story.  I guess it all comes down to the fact that I just love reading!